Using Body Language to Attract Women

March 16, 2011 by moi 

Using body language to attract women is one of the wisest moves you can make if you’re man who wants to succeed in the dating and attraction game. First impressions count, and your body language is a major determinant of the first impression you make.

Beyond that, nonverbal cues are powerful communication tool. We all responds to body language whether they are even aware it exists or not. Some of this is in our genes and some of it is because we learn to respond to nonverbal cues even as infants.

The best use of body language is when it flows naturally from who you are. On the other hand it doesn’t hurt to be familiar with a few important body language cues.

Women are attracted to men who appear confident and competent, so that’s the message you want your body language to convey. Secondary messages are ones of openness and friendliness. You can best accomplish this with an upright posture that excludes control of the space around you. You should be willing to make eye contact but avoid annoying staring.

Part of the challenge is having this posture appear normal and natural. If this is a change for you, at first you probably appear somewhat stiff and uncomfortable. Stay with it. The best way to have it appear natural is to make this posture your normal, everyday way of carrying yourself, not something you try to put on when you walk into a room and see some women are present.

It should be obvious, but but it bears mentioning anyway: a smile is important. Women are much more attracted to a smiling man than someone scowling in a corner.

Another way to convey openness and begin to generate attraction is to have your body squared off with the person you’re interested in. As an example, if you’re standing chatting with a group of people facing someone indicates more interest than standing side to side.

You probably know that crossed arms gives off a negative, “stay away” signal. However many men have a habit of posture that is at least as much a barrier to someone feeling comfortable approaching them as crossed arms. This negative signal is the habit of sitting with the ankle of one leg resting on the knee of the other leg. This cross-legged posture creates the body language equivalent a brick wall in front of you.

These tips alone will help you prevent some of the common body language mistakes. You’ll notice that as time goes by it will be easier and easier to generate interest in woman around you.

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